Solomon Asks for Wisdom: Choosing What Matters Most

Big idea

God loves when we ask for wisdom so we can do what is right.

Age group

Primary kids (about ages 5–10), adaptable for younger or older groups.

Lesson goal

Kids will understand that wisdom is better than riches, and they can ask God for wisdom in everyday choices.

Story narrative

Solomon became king after his father, David. Solomon wanted to honor God, but he also knew being king was a big job. One night, God came to Solomon in a dream and said, “Ask me for what you want me to give you.”

Solomon could have asked for money, power, or a long life. Instead, Solomon spoke honestly. He told God he felt young and needed help. Then Solomon asked for an understanding heart—wisdom to lead God’s people and to know the difference between right and wrong.

God was pleased with Solomon’s request. God promised to give Solomon great wisdom. God also promised blessings Solomon did not ask for, because Solomon’s heart wanted what was right. Solomon woke up grateful, and the story teaches us that God listens when we ask for wisdom too.

Memory verse (ESV)

So I ask you to give me the wisdom to rule and judge them well and to help me know the difference between right and wrong. Without such great wisdom, it would be impossible to rule this great nation."
1 Kings 3:9

Tip: Have kids repeat it with motions: “give” (open hands), “understanding heart” (hands over heart), “discern” (point to eyes), “good and bad” (thumbs up / thumbs down).

3 lessons to learn (kid-friendly)

Ask God for wisdom, not just stuff. Wisdom helps kids choose truth, kindness, and courage.
Tell God the truth about what you need. Solomon admitted he needed help, and God was pleased.
Wisdom helps us love people well. Solomon wanted to make fair choices for others, not only for himself.

Suggested arts and crafts (all topic-related)

“Wisdom crown” headband: Paper crown labeled “wisdom,” with small cut-out “jewels” that say: truth, kindness, self-control, courage, respect.
“Understanding heart” craft: Large paper heart with the memory verse reference (1 Kings 3:9). Kids write one situation where they need wisdom (friends, school, home).
“Choose wisely” traffic light: Red-yellow-green circles on paper. Write: stop and pray, think what is right, go and do it.

Suggested games (all topic-related)

Wisdom or wants? Hold up scenario cards (new toy, being popular, helping a friend, telling the truth). Kids run to the “wisdom” side or “wants” side, then discuss briefly.
Good choice relay: Teams race to match problem cards with wise responses (sharing, apologizing, telling the truth, praying).
Prayer prompt circle: Pass a soft ball. Whoever holds it answers: “I need God’s wisdom when…” (keep it short and supportive).

Suggested Sunday school songs (topic-connected)

“Seek Ye First” (asking God first).
“The Wise Man Built His House Upon the Rock” (wisdom shown in actions).
“Be Careful Little Eyes What You See” (wise choices with our words and actions).

Optional discussion questions

If God asked you, “What do you want me to give you?” what would you ask for, and why?
What is one time you needed wisdom at school or at home?
How can we ask God for wisdom this week?

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